Find your fire

Explore where you are, who you are and where you are going
For men aged between 18 and 25 year old

Openness

inviting connection and learning, embracing change, and building trust

Honesty

strengthening relationships, fostering respect, and creating a space for growth

Integrity

doing what’s right, staying true to your values, and earning lasting respect

Trust

growing through consistency, reliability, and genuine care in every interaction

Listening

Sometimes, all you need is someone to listen. Talking about what’s on your mind can help turn your thoughts into something actionable

Facilitating

We will support you on your journey, helping you gain clarity and a deeper understanding of what’s happening in your life

Supporting

Reaching the place where the real change happens can be challenging, but together we’ll create a space to help you get there

Welcome to a safe space – to be heard, supported and empowered

A place where you can:

  • Feel safe to share life’s challenges without fear of judgement or ridicule
  • Develop your own self belief, grow in confidence and explore what you want for yourself and what you want from the world around you
  • Show up just as you are with no need to impress, no need to look good and no need to be someone you’re not. To be yourself, to be authentic
  • Talk about what gets you down, makes you feel low or where you feel disappointed
  • Explore your ambitions & dreams. Where you can find strength and inspiration to make that next step or to take a first step
  • Be celebrated for your achievements and what you’ve already accomplished in life and honoured and acknowledged for overcoming some of life’s challenges

We meet at regular intervals in a woodland near Lewes and sit in a circle around an open fire.

About us

We are a group of five men, deeply rooted in the Lewes community, where we’ve lived for many years and raised our children

On a regular basis, we meet up with each other to: listen without judgement, hold each other to account where we fall short, celebrate each other’s wins, provide emotional strength when life is too hard to deal with alone and inspire each other to fulfill our dreams

We have trained as facilitators through The ManKind Project and served as mentors with A Band of Brothers, (a local charity dedicated to guiding young men in Brighton and Eastbourne)

Together we have several decades of experience supporting men on their journeys and now we’re bringing our passion, experience, and expertise to the next generation. Through Spark, we’re here to support, challenge, and empower young men in a way that fosters real growth and transformation

Lets walk this path together

Upcoming circles

Join other men around a fire, deep in the woods to tackle the questions in your heart.

  • Speak freely
  • Be heard
  • Be trusted
  • Be in control


Start your journey

It’s free of charge


Monday March 31st 7:30 - 10pm

Vert Woods

Monday May 5th 7:30 - 10pm

Vert Woods

Our methods

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Who we are

A group of men who have been supporting each other for many years.

Dahlan Lassalle

DIRECTOR

Dahlan has lived in Lewes for over 20 years and is married with two sons in their twenties. With a lifelong career in advertising and broadcasting, he also has a deep passion for community engagement and personal development. He honed his facilitation and emotional support skills through The ManKind Project and is a founding member of a men’s group that has met weekly for nearly 18 years.

Neil Turner

MAKER

For over 17 years, Neil has been deeply involved in men’s groups, guiding and supporting others as a mentor with A Band of Brothers. He runs a web development agency and has been involved in designing and building the world famous Cliffe tableau for the past 17 years. His current passions are prop-making, hand-engraving, padel (like tennis) and travel

Simon Griffiths

Renewable Energy Entrepeneur

Simon is committed to making a positive impact for society and the environment.
He started personal development with MKP in 2010 that enabled him to give back to the community as a primary school governor and ABOB mentor.
His interests include street art, surfing, swimming and racket sports

Loran Simon

MARKETEER

Loran has lived in Lewes for 15 years and is married with a son and a daughter aged 17 and 19. In 2018-2019 he travelled the world with his family for one year. Loran has been an entrepreneur for 25 years, including seven years living and working in Germany. He also has a deep passion for personal development and has been a mentor with A Band of Brothers for eight years, supporting young men involved with the criminal justice system.

Danny Harling

WOODSMAN

Danny is married with kids of Primary school to university age. He has lived in the Lewes area for the past 30 years. He is a carpenter who owns a woodland based business that uses woodwork to encourage human connection and nature awareness. He has been involved with men’s work for over fifteen years. His interests include; reading, running, cycling, being with nature and practical creativity .

A few questions

  • Who are you?
  • What do you want?
  • Where are you going?


Does fear, anger, shame, guilt or sadness stop you being the man you want to be ?

What are you waiting for?

Ready to take the next step? Let’s bring your vision of life to life!

Get in touch to find out more. Together, we’ll make it happen.

Testimonials

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